My Happy Money Journey: money for mid life women with Phoebe Blamey

S3_E42 Save like a squirrel! Create your Emergency Fund

You know that money thing you know you should be doing, but somehow you never get around to? Yep today we are building your emergency fund.
In this episode I am going to show you how to save like a squirrel hoarding nuts for winter. This is your money, your financial freedom and possibly you FU fund.  Whatever you call it, it is more than just a pile of cash. It’s peace of mind. It’s freedom. It's the stash that lets you walk away from a job, relationship, or situation that no longer serves you.
So why do we put off getting started?
Today we are taking a deep dive into money and the mindset around that question.
We’ll cover:
Why money slips through our fingers (and how to stop it)
The difference between a cash cushion and a true emergency fund
How to identify your money blocks and move through them
Practical ways to build it even if you only have small amounts
By the end, you’ll have both the woo woo and the practical tools to start building your emergency fund
Share your milestone with me in the Happy Honeys Facebook group or on socials! Let’s celebrate together.
Need more than gentle words of encouragement? Hop onto the spend cleanse LINK TO SPEND CLEANSE
Links
Entourage Finance & Property – learn more at entourage.com.au
Forest Superfoods Lion’s Mane – kick midlife brain fog with organic Aussie-made goodness. LINK TO MUSHROOM GOODNESS
Disclaimer:The information in this podcast is general in nature. Please seek advice from a qualified professional who understands your personal circumstances before making significant financial decisions.

S3_E41 Five Habits that Build Financial Confidence

🔥 5 Habits to Build Financial Confidence (That Aren’t Budgeting B.S.)
If you’re done living pay-to-pay, done people-pleasing with your wallet, and absolutely DONE playing small with your money  this episode is your wake-up call.
Phoebe breaks down the five everyday habits that help you rebuild confidence, rewire your money mindset, and create rituals that lead to unapologetic wealth. From building your Bye-Bye Buffer to investing with flow, this episode will have you rethinking what it means to feel “safe” with money  and exactly how to get there.
What You’ll Learn:
Why mindset work without habits is just expensive journaling
How to identify and replace low-value spending habits
What a Cash Cushion is (and how to build one FAST)
Why every woman needs a Bye-Bye Buffer and how to set it up using round-up or micro-investment apps
How to get your money out of stagnation and into flow
How to add one “rich girl” ritual a week even on a budget
Mentioned in this episode:
The 30-Day Spend Cleanse Calendar (Free Tool!)
Micro-investing apps like Raiz, Spaceship, WeMoney, Up
Links + Resources:
💸 Download the FREE 30-Day Spend Cleanse Calendar → Click Here
🎓 Join the 30-Day Spend Cleanse Course → Find out more here
💬 Come chat in the Happy Honeys Facebook Group → Join Us
🍄‍🟫Forest Superfoods Find out more
🙋‍♀️Entourage Link 
Connect with Phoebe:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehappymoneyjourney/
TikTok: @phoebe.blamey
LinkedIn: Phoebe Blamey
Website: www.myphoebeblamey.com.au

S3_E40 Sexually Transmitted Debt; Love Lies and Money

Today we’re diving into a different kind of STD… one that spreads through love, trust, and silence: sexually transmitted debt.
This can look like a romance scam, on the other hand it can also look like the thing we just do in a relationship.  Today I want to bust the money myth that we need to go along with what our significant other is doing in their business, that its somehow our responsibility to support our new partner and how to spot the signs that an STD might be coming your way...I also want to talk about how to support a friend experiencing an STD. Its something I have done wrong but I want to share the learning from that mistake.
Silence is expensive. Talking about money can save you thousands of dollars and a whole lot of heartache.
In this episode:
Melanie’s story – how one woman’s $40,000 loan for her dream man turned into five years of debt and heartbreak.
The emotional manipulation playbook – love bombing, gaslighting, guilt trips, and why smart women fall for these traps.
The psychology of money & love – how our brains are wired to trust, to hope, and how spotting it can help us change.
Why we ignore red flags – even when our friends are shouting at us about it
How to protect yourself – from keeping your own bank account, to spotting red flags, to setting boundaries that keep you and your money safe.
Key takeaway:
Being vulnerable with money doesn’t mean you’re weak  it means you’re human. The solution isn’t to hide all alone with your shame. You can build skills, safety nets, and support systems. Protecting your assets is smart. Saying no is really hard but you are not alone. .
Resources & Support
WIRE (Women’s Information and Referral Exchange, VIC) – wire.org.au
1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732 (24/7 national support line for sexual assault, domestic and family violence)
Your bank’s financial hardship team – if you’ve taken out a loan under pressure, speak to them as soon as possible
Financial Rights Legal Centre – financialrights.org.au
💬 Have you or someone you know experienced sexually transmitted debt? Join the conversation in the Happy Honeys community a safe, shame-free space for women to talk about money, power, and freedom. Your invitation is here
Build your own financial literacy with the 30 Day Spend Cleanse, find out more 
 
 

S3_E39 Stop Being the Bank: Boundaries with Partners, Parents & Kids

We all think we’re supposed to look after everyone our partners, our parents, our kids, our grandkids. But what happens when that “responsibility” becomes a financial trap? This week I’m diving deep into the messy middle of money and relationships when love, obligation, and trust get tangled up with bank balances.
I’ll take you inside real-life stories from workshops and coaching sessions:
When a partner’s business collapses and you’re the one propping it up
When a sibling might be financially exploiting your ageing parent
When kids (or the “Bank of Mum and Dad” culture) expect more than you can afford
We’ll talk about difficult conversations, long-term thinking, and why “no” is a complete sentence. Most importantly you’ll walk away with the tools and permission to protect your financial future without blowing up your relationships.
💡 Links and Resources:
Join the 30-Day Spend Cleanse: Build boundaries and clarity in just 15 minutes a day
Join our free Happy Honeys Facebook Group
Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, LinkedIn and YouTube @phoebe.blamey
Link for Forest Superfoods
Thanks to our sponsor, find out more at entourage.com.au

S3_E38 Women, Wealth & the Great Inheritance Boom

Australia is on the brink of the largest intergenerational wealth transfer ever. Between $3.8 and $5 trillion will move from boomers to the next generation. Women will inherit 65% of it.
In this episode of My Happy Money Journey, Phoebe dives into the realities of inheritance:
Why women inherit more, later in life
How divorce, blended families, and “the eldest daughter effect” complicate things
The sandwich generation’s struggle caring for parents while still supporting kids
The rise of the Bank of Mum and Dad and the risks of living inheritances
Why open conversations prevent conflict and even elder abuse
The tax traps you need to know about (CGT, super, property sales)
Why testamentary trusts aren’t just for the rich
And how to find the right financial adviser in a shrinking market
Phoebe shares stats, stories, and strategies to help women not just receive money but truly own it.
Sponsor:This episode is brought to you by Entourage Finance & Property: helping Australians grow wealth through property, lending, and advice. Find out more at www.entourage.com.au
Forest Superfoods link here:  Forest Superfoods
Download your FREE spend cleanse calendar HERE
 

S3_E37 Laid Off but Lifted Up: Designing Your Next and Best Chapter

When you’re over 50 and suddenly find yourself without a job, it’s more than a career hiccup it’s a seismic life shift. Add menopause, aging parents, adult kids moving home, or divorce, and it’s a perfect storm.
This week, Phoebe dives into the uncomfortable reality: women over 55 in Australia take, on average, 20 months to find new work (seriously) more than double the time of younger candidates. But that “forced pause” can be the catalyst for something far more exciting than you expected.
We’ll cover:
Why redundancy rates and re-employment times hit women over 50 harder
How to run your own “financial first aid” in the days after losing a job
The critical role of knowing your burn rate
How to plug your money leaks with the free 30-Day Spend Cleanse calendar (linked below)
The surprising industries that do value mature female leadership
Why AI literacy could be your best career insurance policy
Smart, lean ways to start a business when venture capital is not flowing to women
Whether you’ve just been laid off or you’re quietly thinking “what if?”, this episode is about building a plan, protecting your finances, and reinventing your work life on your terms.
Links & Resources:
Free 30-Day Spend Cleanse Calendar: Link Here
Follow Phoebe on TikTok (its not just for Kids!!) : @phoebe.blamey
Join the My Happy Money Journey Facebook Group: Happy Honeys on a Happy Money Journey

S3_E36 Get Some Rich Girl Energy

It could have been the worst week...but my money systems saved me!
This week is all about where the money systems you have really count.  No its not when you look at your bank account, its when life hits the fan and everything falls apart. Because not all rich girl habits are about designer handbags or passive income dreams. Some are about finally having a freezer full of food when you're too sore to cook… or a cash cushion that lets you breathe when you can’t work.
In this episode, I break down the real, quiet, powerful habits that keep me calm, prepared, and actually wealthy. After four days in pain from a trapped nerve, I was reminded exactly why these habits matter.We’re talking systems, insurance, boundaries, and joy over convenience. It’s rich girl energy, when I really had none. 

S3_E35 Strategy over Scramble: Making Money Work In Business

Over a third of businesses in Australia are started by women over 35 and we’re doing it at almost double the rate of men. But we’re not just chasing profit,we’re chasing freedom, flexibility, and purpose. In this episode, Phoebe shares why so many women are walking away from the corporate treadmill to build something of their own and what it really takes to make your business financially sustainable.
From the untold story behind the female entrepreneurship boom to the cold, hard truth about subscription costs, pricing your offers, and paying yourself more than a guilt-soaked 1% this is your no-BS, emotionally honest, number-crunching chat about building a business that actually supports you.
If you’re a woman in midlife thinking of starting a business or knee-deep in one and wondering, “Is this even working?” this one’s for you.
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S3_E34 3 Small Shifts to Step Into Financial Freedom

In this episode, we’re ditching perfection and chasing progress, because financial freedom isn’t about doing everything “right.” It’s about healing your money wounds, learning the basics, and transforming your relationship with money using simple, consistent actions.
I’ll take you through:
Why it’s time to stop faking it and start faithing it
How money trauma shows up (even in high earners)
The three-step formula to create financial peace without pressure
What it really means to build systems around your life (not the other way around)
How tiny financial choices lead to powerful freedom
This one’s part pep talk, part plan, and all heart. Whether you’re swimming in spreadsheets or ignoring your statements altogether, this episode is for you.
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S3_E33 The Midlife Crisis No One Warned Us About

By choice or by chance, our lives change in our 40s and 50s. Kids grow up. Parents age. Relationships fracture. Careers stall. Suddenly, we’re carrying everyone — emotionally, financially, physically — and nobody seems to notice that we’re drowning.
This episode is raw and real.I’m digging into what it really feels like to be a woman in the thick of it: invisible, exhausted, expected to hold it all together… while secretly falling apart.
What do we do when it all falls apart, because we were meant to be the generation that had it all!! Instead we are getting divorced, losing our jobs and finding ourselves with no real plan. This is the emotional and financial burden we don't talk about. But we need to.
Because here’s the truth: You are not lazy. You are not crazy. You are not alone.And you are not out of options.
💥 In this episode, we talk about:
Why midlife is hitting women harder than ever before
The trap of being the default caregiver — even when we’re crumbling
Domestic violence, adult children, ageing parents, and financial burnout
The uncomfortable but necessary steps to start putting yourself first again
Transition-to-retirement strategies, Centrelink options, and topping up super
How curiosity beats defeat — especially when you're rebuilding your life
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Free Workbook: My Mindful Money Journey
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